
Mate by Tucker Max and Geoffrey Miller is a dating guide for men built on evolutionary psychology: see dating from her side, build real traits, show them honestly, and pick the right market.

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American writer and entrepreneur
Tucker Max was born in Atlanta and grew up in Lexington, Kentucky. He studied at the University of Chicago and earned a law degree from Duke University in 2001, but he did not practice law.
He began posting stories about his drinking and sex life on his website. They became the books I Hope They Serve Beer in Hell (2006), Assholes Finish First (2010) and Hilarity Ensues (2012), part of a genre of crude memoirs for young men that critics called fratire. Feminist groups protested his campus talks, saying his writing promoted a culture of rape. A 2009 film of his first book failed at the box office.
He then changed course. Mate: Become the Man Women Want (2015), written with the evolutionary psychologist Geoffrey Miller, rejects pickup tricks. It tells men to become better partners through health, skills and honest self-presentation, based on what women look for. In 2014 he co-founded Scribe Media, a company that helps people write and publish books, and he left it in 2021. He also helped Tiffany Haddish write The Last Black Unicorn (2017).

Mate by Tucker Max and Geoffrey Miller is a dating guide for men built on evolutionary psychology: see dating from her side, build real traits, show them honestly, and pick the right market.
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